Introduction

You’re here, so you probably live in California and are either considering, going through, or suffering from the effects of a divorce.

Welcome! You’re in the right place.

But let me just say right upfront that if you're not willing to be fair, then this blog is NOT for you. So go away...now!

And women, be forewarned: while this is written primarily from a female perspective (mine), it is NOT written with you in mind (not unless you are actually the reasonable one, and your ex--or soon-to-be ex--is the one who's being difficult).

As for the rest of you who really do just want to do the right thing so you can get on with your lives and take care of your kids, this blog is tailor made for you! So read on.

Men are generally the one's who get screwed in a divorce, so my husband (a veteran "screw-ee") and I have had no choice but to become quasi experts on men’s rights just to keep things fair. In the process, he and I have become the “go to” couple for our male friends, family, and co-workers who need reliable advice to keep them from being taken advantage of and to preserve their relationships with their children.

Keep in mind that we're not attorneys and we don't pretend to dispense legal advice...we're just sick and tired of watching men get the screws put to them when they get a divorce in California.

So that's it. I’m just getting started with my "data dump" from our 0wn 7 years (and continuing!) of hell and all of the associated knowledge that we’ve acquired along the way, so be sure to check back often as more information is posted, and more questions are asked and answered.

Enjoy...