If you’ve decided to get a divorce and she's in any way to blame, take action NOW while she’s still guilt-ridden. DO NOT wait until things settle down. If you do, YOU WILL REGRET IT! That’s not just my opinion, that’s FACT.
I’ve seen it happen time and again: in EVERY instance where the wife was responsible for the divorce (affair, guy in the wings, whatever) and the husband let things slide and hesitated to file for divorce or consult an attorney because “she’d never be that way,” the next thing he knew—BLAMMO! He was blindsided! She’d hired an attorney...and she'd been talking to her friends and, oh yeah, she doesn't want to be fair anymore. Now it's all about making him pay for the "privilege" of having been married to her (i.e., spousal support or “bitch payments”).
This can, for the most part, be avoided by acting quickly while she's still feeling guilty and wants to "make things right." This isn't the time for denial: I'm sorry, but you're about to go to war. Don't give her the upper hand by your inaction.
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