tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.comments2023-10-08T05:07:40.544-07:00Divorcing in California: Before - During - AfterLilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17709428966657844947noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-16387898636089070372018-02-03T06:47:26.362-08:002018-02-03T06:47:26.362-08:00Why would this bitter-sounding wife call her husba...Why would this bitter-sounding wife call her husband’s ex a freak for wanting him to keep a wardrobe at their home? It’s ridiculous to think the mother should pay for clothes for both homes, simply because the father pays child support. It is also important to factor in time spent at both houses. Is this a father and step mother who see the kids as little as possible, or does the father maintain 50% custody? If it’s 50%, then by no means should it be the responsibility of the ex wife to provide clothing for both homes, AND 100% of all health, school and extra curricular costs. The wife’s blog just portrays anger, calling the ex wife an idiot and the devil. It’s hard to take her side at all when she speaks in such a childish and jealous manner. Our mediator said each party pays for the costs at their OWN house. (The one who has more money pays child support.) Everything else, school uniforms, extra curricular activities (that both parents agree to) etc are shared. It’s funny how the person writing this blog has no business writing about it at all. Divorce agreements are between the ex wife and the ex husband. Everyone else needs to mind their own business. It’s about the children, not how much money a wife wants her husband to keep to spend on her. (At least that is the feeling I get when I read the tone of this blog.)Fair Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15919337879165398628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-20678601448659767932018-02-03T06:30:31.830-08:002018-02-03T06:30:31.830-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Fair Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15919337879165398628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-20106320637279254732017-12-08T02:56:51.345-08:002017-12-08T02:56:51.345-08:00Michael Lechtman, P.A., is a small firm with subst...Michael Lechtman, P.A., is a small firm with substantial financial and legal resources capable of negotiating and litigating complex issues at all levels of the Florida state and federal courts.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488609776992261254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-36479485103694353642017-12-08T02:27:38.315-08:002017-12-08T02:27:38.315-08:00If you contemplating a divorce, call South Florida...If you contemplating a divorce, call South Florida divorce attorney Michael Lechtman for help. For over 39 years, he has found cost-effective solutions for couples seeking dissolution.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488609776992261254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-72323889491608416182017-10-13T02:40:31.844-07:002017-10-13T02:40:31.844-07:00Very nice and informative blog-post. You have shar...Very nice and informative blog-post. You have shared very important information which is required by most of the parents who are going through legal proceedings for their child custody. <br /><a href="http://www.cafamilydivorcelawyer.com/california-family-law/best-orange-county-divorce-lawyers/" rel="nofollow">Family law firm Orange County</a><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15902482793901979419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-67277923905599277152017-10-12T22:58:44.899-07:002017-10-12T22:58:44.899-07:00I agree. A child support decree should cover each ...I agree. A child support decree should cover each and everything related to a child. like school fee, maintenance cost, medical expenses etc.<br /><a href="https://www.yanezlaw.com/california-family-law-attorney/how-is-custody-determined-in-orange-county-ca/" rel="nofollow">Custody attorney in Orange County</a><br />braelyncalliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11613555582609297465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-45331368646215704992017-06-26T15:04:06.746-07:002017-06-26T15:04:06.746-07:00are school fees covered under child support?are school fees covered under child support?1982girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16225085346156772731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-57162738717569862422016-07-12T08:59:21.690-07:002016-07-12T08:59:21.690-07:00My ex- husband is an executive , who like many oth...My ex- husband is an executive , who like many others, decided after a long-term marriage to leave for Barbie. My spousal support is based on a percentage for base pay and a separate percentage that is based on bonuses or stock grants. I receive the percentage of base pay support monthly. I receive the percentage of bonus pay within 30 days after the bonus is paid. I know two other women who receive their support the same way. The trouble is, according to my family law attorney, the Coyrt will not order percentages, you have to negotiate for it. I requested it during our three-year divorce from Hell (things became better after the Judge fined my soon-to-be-ex $10k for Obstruction of Justice). I was told we had to have a fixed monthly amount based on W-2 and all the other factors. When he and Barbie took me back to court a year later, I insisted on the percentage method, we negotiated it, and the Judge thought it made a lot of sense. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10996890103195939748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-91849143900940669072016-04-20T16:04:35.351-07:002016-04-20T16:04:35.351-07:00If, after she filed for divorce 8 years ago, she s...If, after she filed for divorce 8 years ago, she still won't settle the divorce and the judge has yet to grant the bifurcation, does the 8 years count towards the division of military pension. I'm sure she's dragging it out to get more money. They weren't even married for 6 year! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06288742777657729251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-63267509560427072812016-04-20T16:02:50.468-07:002016-04-20T16:02:50.468-07:00If, after she filed for divorce 8 years ago, she s...If, after she filed for divorce 8 years ago, she still won't settle the divorce and the judge has yet to grant the bifurcation, does the 8 years count towards the division of military pension. I'm sure she's dragging it out to get more money. They weren't even married for 6 year! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06288742777657729251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-21363241096380206402016-02-28T20:08:26.618-08:002016-02-28T20:08:26.618-08:00Thank you for using my Guide and if it work for yo...Thank you for using my Guide and if it work for you that makes me happy<br /><br /><a href="http://www.universalbay.com/Categories/School/Teaching-Supplies.aspx" rel="nofollow">Educational School Supplies</a>Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18152169247675596903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-20398758531857070022014-06-05T06:37:23.672-07:002014-06-05T06:37:23.672-07:00Thank you for such a great info. I was able to com...Thank you for such a great info. I was able to come across this online service that allows you to easily edit your PDF documents. (http://goo.gl/dD1gqY) You can fill out PDF form, save it, fax it, and email it. You might want to try, it was good!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17003860913971874056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-22778661057524721342014-05-09T09:37:05.890-07:002014-05-09T09:37:05.890-07:00Interesting. I'm the bitch. The one who put hi...Interesting. I'm the bitch. The one who put him through college, spent thirty years raising his five children, begged him to talk to me and tell me what I could do to make him love me again, saw him swallowed up by porn sites until I could no longer compete with airbrushed women. I'm the bitch who thought if I could just hold out until he retired, he'd have less stress and we could connect again, we could build our lives around our grandchildren, we could enjoy spending time together again rather than my waiting for him to come home later and later every night and spending every weekend wondering where he went. So, if I've held on tighter to the life that you stole from me, too bad. After 30 years I had an expectation a lifestyle that I had helped build. He sold my 6 bedroom, 4000 square foot home out from under me and three of our children two months before our daughter graduated from high school and we had to move to an 800 sq. foot 2 bedroom apartment, a 19 year old son, 18 yr. old daughter, a 9yr. old daughter and me. I sold nearly everything because he wanted nothing and would have thrown it away. I sold everything and make $600. Do I sound bitter? Wonder why? Last year he bought a $620,000 house for his new wife. I'll never own a house again. At 53, after spending 28 years as a stay-at-home mother of his five children, I can't find a job. I can do anything, but I can't prove that. So am I fighting for as much income as I can get? You bet. It belongs to me. I earned it. I put up with his rage and violence. I stood between him and the children. I maintained the appearance of the perfect family so that his reputation would hold up in his career and he could continue to advance. And now that he's on medication that's made him a decent person, I've been thrown to the curb. So sweetheart, if you don't like my fighting, that's just too bad.Jane Ellen Smith Collectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10964653412694074372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-19817051243254604052014-01-30T08:55:09.749-08:002014-01-30T08:55:09.749-08:00Wow. It's like you have lived my nightmare. E...Wow. It's like you have lived my nightmare. Except at this point, I have lost the love of my life because she could not bear the pain of waiting any longer, and is fast approaching an age where her having a baby will no longer be an option. I only wish I found your post 6 months ago.<br />But here is to a scramble to salvage my life from a long process that proved that nice guys do indeed sometimes finish last. I've been trying to keep the peace for 2 years now for the benefit of the kids, but it has not had the effect which will normally incur in an interaction with a well adjusted human being (ie show someone respect, they show it back). <br /><br />please, wish me luck in the salvage effort!<br />popshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06804065240257254803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-63088590625291688382014-01-27T14:55:18.606-08:002014-01-27T14:55:18.606-08:00Wow. How did he manage it. My fiance requested sta...Wow. How did he manage it. My fiance requested status only bifurcation and somehow the judge keeps allowing her lawyer to go ex parte to have the dates moved and combined with the request for more visitation. At our wits end on how to get a darn status only judgement and deal with the property and visitation separately. So frustrating.<br /><br />Yes, his crazy has been diagnosed BPD and cluster B in general but refuses treatment because they were wrong. Uh huh.Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05626298582451811286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-58089984403039423682014-01-27T14:52:29.103-08:002014-01-27T14:52:29.103-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05626298582451811286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-85112005171031677922013-10-23T16:28:50.589-07:002013-10-23T16:28:50.589-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Surfing Patent Attorneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17113963877649025544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-60374023697200428332013-08-29T17:39:26.459-07:002013-08-29T17:39:26.459-07:00Wow, I came across this post and it was so helpful...Wow, I came across this post and it was so helpful. I am the father, and my ex uses my children as a pawn to extract every last $ from me. My longtime girlfriend, who calls my ex the devil as well, finally helped me see that I was being totally taken advantage of and I need to stand up for myself. <br /><br />I continue to go thru this everyday, but reading this helps me realize I do have rights too. Thank you. Marketmakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00369367346247549844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-11544108842845533122013-06-24T10:15:54.967-07:002013-06-24T10:15:54.967-07:00Going through same situation... very good informat...Going through same situation... very good information. Would love to chat.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15209906115753741435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-2626885945067773492010-01-01T01:30:05.742-08:002010-01-01T01:30:05.742-08:00I am *so* with you, sister! Let me know if you hav...I am *so* with you, sister! Let me know if you have any questions that I haven't already posted answers to here...I will *gladly* research them for you. (BTW, what his ex is doing is called "Parental Alienation" and it's illegal. Fun times!)Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17709428966657844947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729900499133627461.post-9105454370669197102009-09-04T10:25:45.848-07:002009-09-04T10:25:45.848-07:00So I see that your husband's ex is related to ...So I see that your husband's ex is related to my fiance's ex...now that I read your blog I will see about preparing the paperwork for him to bifurcate as they are fighting over property issues and they have a MSC on Oct. 9th that will probably lead nowhere (the ex wants 1/2 his 401k but thinks her stocks aren't community property...she cashed hers out to pay for her atty w/o telling him). I want to have this bitch by the lips if you know what I mean...tries to manipulate him into not moving in with me by having her daughter crying calling her father saying I don't want you to move in there but no reasons why...now the bitch got her a cell phone to interrupt his parenting time (he has 8% of the time with his daughter....she's the type of mom where when the child gets old enough and the parent wants to walk them to school or drop them off the child wants them to drop them off down the street)...people like this serve no legitimate purpose in life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com